Why Drinking Stops Feeling Like a Choice (And Why That’s Not Your Fault)
Many women feel trapped in a drinking cycle they no longer want; not because they’re weak, but because alcohol rewires the brain. This article breaks down why drinking eventually stops feeling like a choice, how dopamine gets hijacked, and what it actually takes to break free. A compassionate, science-backed reminder that your struggle isn’t your fault; and that quitting drinking is absolutely possible.
Real Talk: How to Respond When People Ask, “Why Aren’t You Drinking?”
At some point after we quit drinking, someone will ask, “Wait - you’re not drinking?” The pressure can catch you off guard, but with the right mindset and a few confident scripts, you can shut down the conversation and stay grounded in your sober identity. This post offers five simple responses to help you navigate social situations with clarity and ease.
That Was Then, This Is Now: How to Break the Shame Spiral in Sobriety
Shame memories in sobriety don’t mean you’re failing, they mean you’re healing. As your awareness grows, old moments can resurface with surprising intensity, but they’re showing up so you can release them, not relive them. This reflection offers four gentle practices to help you move through guilt, reclaim your power, and remember: that was then, and this is now.
Pep Talk for When You’re Craving a Drink
A craving doesn’t mean you want alcohol. It means your brain is looking for relief in the only way it’s been taught. Stay with me for a few minutes, and I’ll help you ride this craving in a way that makes you proud tomorrow morning, not full of regret.
How to Feel Calm, Confident, and Excited for Your First Sober Holidays
If you’re feeling good about being alcohol-free but unsure how to navigate your first sober holiday season, you’re not alone. You might be wondering, Will it still be fun? Will I feel left out? How do I stay calm when things get stressful?
The truth is, you don’t need alcohol to handle the holidays: you just need the right tools. The Sober Holiday Collection was designed to help you stay grounded, rested, and radiant through every celebration, so you can actually enjoy the season; no FOMO required.
The Difficulties Are Not in the Way … They Are the Way
This week’s reflection is for the woman who feels like her sober journey keeps getting harder. What if those challenges aren’t detours, but divine direction? Here’s how to see your difficulties as tools for growth, grace, and the peace you’ve been praying for.
Add More: The Weekend Mindset Shift That Changes Everything
Instead of focusing on what to cut out, my guest reminds us that the real magic happens when we start adding more: more joy, more energy, more nourishment, more life. Here’s how that “add more” mindset can make your alcohol-free weekends feel easier, and a lot more fun.
When Acceptance Becomes the Doorway to Freedom
We often think acceptance means defeat, especially when it comes to alcohol. But what if acceptance is actually the doorway to peace? In this week’s reflection, I’m sharing how letting go of moderation becomes the moment you step into real freedom.
10 Reasons Smart Women Are Ditching Alcohol
If you've been quietly wondering "Is this wine actually helping me anymore?" - this is for you. Here are 10 reasons capable women are walking away from alcohol and not looking back.
How to Actually Enjoy Your First Sober Weekends (Instead of Just Surviving Them)
Your first sober weekend might feel unfamiliar, but that doesn’t mean it has to be hard. In this post, Shannon shares five powerful mindset shifts to help you feel confident, calm, and proud - not deprived - as you navigate weekends without alcohol.