My rock bottom wasn’t a car crash or an intervention. It was me, alone in my bedroom, trying to hide a bottle of vodka in my underwear drawer; and suddenly realizing, I don’t want to be this woman anymore.

Prioritizing your growth isn’t selfish, it’s essential. Healing doesn’t happen in the leftover scraps of your time; it happens when you create space to breathe, reset, and reconnect with who you’re becoming. This week I’m sharing why embodiment, community, and intentional experiences are often the key to unlocking your next level in sobriety; and how my upcoming retreat is designed to give women exactly that.

Some seasons just feel heavy, but I’ve learned that sobriety doesn’t just change how we handle alcohol; it changes how we handle life. Even on the hardest days, I’d rather feel it, surrender it, and trust God through it than numb it all away.

Wondering how to quit drinking when your husband still drinks? Learn how to navigate sobriety in marriage, set boundaries, and create lasting change, even if your spouse isn't ready.

The other night I sat in the quiet - moonlight, leaves dancing, and a calm I never used to have. Drinking me would’ve been rushing home to my wine or avoiding the drive altogether. But sober me sat in peace, tears in my eyes, grateful for how far I’ve come. The time it took to get here was worth it… because the time would’ve passed anyway.

If you’re feeling good about being alcohol-free but unsure how to navigate your first sober holiday season, you’re not alone. You might be wondering, Will it still be fun? Will I feel left out? How do I stay calm when things get stressful?
The truth is, you don’t need alcohol to handle the holidays: you just need the right tools. The Sober Holiday Collection was designed to help you stay grounded, rested, and radiant through every celebration, so you can actually enjoy the season; no FOMO required.

This week’s reflection is for the woman who feels like her sober journey keeps getting harder. What if those challenges aren’t detours, but divine direction? Here’s how to see your difficulties as tools for growth, grace, and the peace you’ve been praying for.

Instead of focusing on what to cut out, my guest reminds us that the real magic happens when we start adding more: more joy, more energy, more nourishment, more life. Here’s how that “add more” mindset can make your alcohol-free weekends feel easier, and a lot more fun.

Society tells us alcohol gives us fun, relaxation, and connection. But what if it's actually stealing your time, energy, confidence, and peace of mind?