The other night I sat in the quiet - moonlight, leaves dancing, and a calm I never used to have. Drinking me would’ve been rushing home to my wine or avoiding the drive altogether. But sober me sat in peace, tears in my eyes, grateful for how far I’ve come. The time it took to get here was worth it… because the time would’ve passed anyway.

When life feels uncertain or change feels too big, it’s easy to stay stuck in fear. But growth always asks us to begin before we feel ready. Whether it’s navigating motherhood, a new season of sobriety, or learning how to live without alcohol, you don’t have to know every step - you just have to trust the next one.

Real healing isn’t about feeling good - it’s about getting real. In this reflection, Shannon shares how one client learned to stay present through discomfort, rebuild self-trust, and face what she used to avoid. If you’re in early sobriety or craving peace beyond the pour, this is a reminder that growth often feels messy before it feels miraculous.